Monday, December 3, 2012

New Blog

Hi Everyone. Blogger has kindly let me know that I have used up all my allowable storage for this blog site. So after 5 years I have to bid it adieu. I have started a new blog at mushalafamily.blogspot.com   See ya there!

Monday, November 12, 2012

Colostomy Bag

Have you ever wondered how to change a colostomy bag? Read on for  how we do it.  In this picture  the bag is full of stool and is starting to tear away from the skin so it's time to change it. The bags typically only last a day or so. 

The bag is off and I have just finished wiping it clean with a damp cloth. No oily soaps, baby wipes, or lotions can come into contact with this area. This helps keep the skin residue free so the bag will adhere better. The top larger hole is called a stoma and the little bottom one is a mucus fistula. When he had a colostogram done they put a tube through the mucus fistula and ran barium through it to see what his insides looked like. The area is a little red because it irritates his skin when the bag is pulled off. The stoma is his colon stitched up into his skin so that it won't fall back in. Some stoma's protrude more, but Stuart's is flush with his skin. When he has his colostomy reversal surgery in a few weeks they will reconnect the stoma to the mucus fistula so that it is one continuous line and stool or poop will travel to his new anus and out into a diaper. If you were to look at his bottom you wouldn't be able to tell that anything was wrong. The surgeon did a great job of creating an opening for him. 

The intestines are usually passing stool so this near constant flow  makes it tricky to put the bag on, because you need it to be completely clean and dry. The acid in this liquid form of stool is really irritating to the skin so it's important that it doesn't rest there for long. 

I like to use this product called Eakin Seal. It's a fruit pectin based product  so he won't have an allergic reaction to it. It also absorbs moisture well. The ostomy nurse at the hospital had us using two kinds of special ostomy wipes and a powder. After a two weeks of  using them his newborn skin was raw and bleeding. I feel those products were not sensitive enough for his skin. This Eakin Seal is much simpler and safer and you can use it over any type of wound/ostomy to promote healing.  It's made in Ireland and I found it over the internet. It's expensive, but fortunately our insurance will cover about a months supply.  Okay, enough about Eakin Seal. 

Front of one type of colostomy bag. There is a sticky 'tie' that I roll up at the end to close up the bag.  These bags will come in a box of 10 and cost $130. Our insurance will only cover 20 bags a month and he goes through one a day. Last month we ran out of bags so I went to all the colostomy supply companies and asked for free samples of their pediatric products. In a pinch you can also place the Eakin Seal around the stoma and cover it with an oversize diaper strapped sideways across the abdomen. I learned this trick from an imperforate anus internet forum I belong to. People in other countries don't have the access to colostomy supplies that we do so they improvise! One mother in Guatemala said she went through 20 cloth diapers a day trying to make sure her son stayed dry. 

Back of the bag. There is a starter hole that can be cut larger to fit the size of your stoma. This hole fits little Stuart's stoma okay. When you are ready to place the bag on you peel off the paper and place it directly over the stoma. It's has a sticky backing like a sticker that adhere's to the skin. 

Before I place the bag on I blow dry his skin to make sure it's really dry. Stuart likes this part. 

Then I place a piece of the rolled up Eakin Seal over his stoma. When it comes into contact with moisture/stool it will expand and help keep the stool from sliding around where it shouldn't. I don't bother doing anything special for the mucus fistula. We used to cut a hole for it on the bag and place the Eakin around it, but it's so small and nothing leaks out of it. So we just leave it alone and it makes changing the bag much easier 

Vwa-la! A new bag is placed over his stoma. The colostomy  bag doesn't seem to bother him, but he does seem a bit curious about it and will pull on it when it's exposed. 

Changing table for all the medical supplies. He hates being on that table though so we change him on the bed. It just means that my side of the bed is always covered in pee and poop. A small price to pay to make baby happier. 

Twice a day I stick this dialator into his new bum-hole ( just a quick slide with some ky jelly). He started at 10 mm for the first two weeks after his pull through surgery (pull the colon down and create the new opening) then we went to 11mm for two weeks and finally we are at 12 mm. We do this so that his new opening won't close back up and we will continue to use it until he has solid poop. He used to scream and cry when I put the dialator in, but now he seems resigned to it and doesn't cry. Anytime he's getting a diaper change (he pees normally) he will clench his legs closed together as hard as he can and I have to literally pry them open. He even arches his back and rolls over the side to keep his bum from being touched. He had an appointment with a geneticist the other day (everything was normal) and he couldn't get Stuart to open his legs for him. The doctor said he had never seen a kid so determined. We had to laugh about it and even baby was chuckling over his new trick. 

relaxing

A smooch and kiss and we are done! Good job baby. 

The Family!

Cheery Lela







Sunday, November 11, 2012

Ducky boy

Little Ducky is all ready for church. 

My little ducky boy.
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Princess Lela

Ducky and gams!

love the sleeping hands!

Thula put her brother in the laundry basket and was pushing him around in it. Goofs!



Baby watching me download these pictures. He's my little buddy and I'm so in love with him!


Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Cross Country

Carter Elementary cross country team. July-October 2012. Thula is in the top right hand corner.

Thula really liked her coach Amy (standing behind her).

Stretching before a race.

Daddy's girls

S'mores after practice

The last race was in Lexington. It was a Beautiful drive with all of the horse farms. It looked like a pretty patchwork quilt and looked like pictures I've seen of the English countryside. It was a cold day though, but little Stuart enjoyed his papoose.

Thula ran well this season. She always finished in the top quarter of all her races. She enjoyed learning how to run for fun and says she wants to do it again next season. Go Thula!

Happy Halloween

Before the ward Trunk-or-Treat. I think Lela's costume will end up being something she'll blame me for when she's older. She's suppossed to be "Swift Wind" She-Ra's noble steed and Lela's favorite super-hero horse. Lela picked out the yarn and I sewed it to a winter hat and then stuck bunny ears over it. She also had a pair of pink fairy wings to go with it because Swift Wind can fly. Despite this hot mess she acutally won the 'Best Costume' at the Trunk-or-Treat partay. She's just too cute! 

My handsome husband. He also wore this for his work party and won best costume. Lela must have heard me call him handsome because on Halloween night she asked him, "Daddy, are you going to be handsome again?"

Adding up the goods.

Kitty always likes to be involved.

Fun or Torture?




Spooky night

Trick or Treating with friends.

Have you ever seen a stuffed pepper has DELECTIBLE as this?!


Which picture is more scary?!!!!!


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